Monday, February 1, 2010

They could go either way...Floating Gender

While all of us have some masculine and feminine qualities in us, most people only show the socially acceptable ones. Floating Genders, on the other hand, feel extremely repressed if they have to do this.

Recognizing them:
-You may think that these people are repressed homosexuals, but it's not necessarily the case.
-They want to be able to play with their gender.
-They aren't obvious about this (it can be a social faux pas), a woman may have a very masculine energy or a man may have a nicely developed sensitive side. In general, the term "Metro-sexual" often applies to these people.

To Seduce them:

Do:
1. Play with your gender. (They really want someone that they can play with.)
2. Show them that they can relax with you and show whatever side of their character that they choose.

Don't:
1. Try to keep them repressed. They want to free up parts of their personality--you need to help them do this.
2. Mistake this for homosexuality. These people want their counterpart from the opposite gender.

Remember: This is the only time where it is a good idea to seduce your own victim type. If you are a Floating Gender and seduce another, then you give each other license to play and explore. This is a great thing for both of you. You can both let loose without the fear of judgment or repression.

If you are not a Floating Gender, do not bother to seduce this type. You will inhibit them and make both of you uncomfortable.

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