Professors are interesting creatures. They have a problem getting out of their own head--analyzing and criticizing everything in their minds. Even when they talk about the game, love, sex...they always seem to put way too much thought into it and forget that the game is to be relaxed in and enjoyed.
Recognizing them:
They tend to be very wry, ironic, many times quit witty--you might not even understand what they're saying, but feel that they're looking down on you. They may feel physically and tend to make up for it. Believe it or not, with all their bluster, they really just want to get physical.
To seduce:
1. Overwhelm them with your physical presence (Sirens and Rakes are perfect for this, but that doesn't mean that others couldn't manage it as well).
2. Then, make them feel like they are Don Juan or Cleopatra and they're yours.
3. Don't show much of your intellectual side. They are the intellectual one, not you, and you have to let them be. (Note: this doesn't mean that you are or should act like a moron or bimbo. Simply let them believe in their own superiority, let them judge you if they choose (you know that you are really in control).
Do these things and the teacher will be yours to teach. All you must do is keep that fact to yourself. Let him/her believe that they are in control, even though it is you who is--because you give them the stimulation that they don't get from anyone else.
Saturday, July 25, 2009
All hail the Drama Queen
Ladies and Gentlemen, don't let the name fool you. There are both male and female Drama Queens, and all of you know someone who is one.
We've all met the person that something just has to be going on in their lives. Good or bad, horrific is the best. They want pain--believe it or not, this is their way of deflecting boredom.
Recognize them by the number of people who have hurt them, the tragedies that have befallen them, the horrors that they've witnessed. They play the victim...and like it.
Seducing them:
1. Dont' fix their problems.
2. Dont' offer security. (Remember, these people enjoy pain.)
3. Since they enjoy pain, you have to be able to give them rough mental treatment. No matter how much they may say or look otherwise, they really enjoy this. It's the only way to seduce them for any length of time.
4. Don't be too nice. They'll find a reason to quarrel and get rid of you.
Note: These people can be selfish and anti-seductive if they are extreme. Mostly, they're harmless and make good victims.
Personally, I would go with a short-term relationship to mix things up a bit, enliven life. If you really want to enter a long-term relationship, then be ready to interject drama into your relationship periodically. They need it and will find it exciting, sort of a way to constantly renew the relationship. On a personal level, I don't enjoy this. But to each his/her own. If you like it, go for it.
You MUST enjoy the constant pull of the game if you want to play with the Queen. They never stop playing.
We've all met the person that something just has to be going on in their lives. Good or bad, horrific is the best. They want pain--believe it or not, this is their way of deflecting boredom.
Recognize them by the number of people who have hurt them, the tragedies that have befallen them, the horrors that they've witnessed. They play the victim...and like it.
Seducing them:
1. Dont' fix their problems.
2. Dont' offer security. (Remember, these people enjoy pain.)
3. Since they enjoy pain, you have to be able to give them rough mental treatment. No matter how much they may say or look otherwise, they really enjoy this. It's the only way to seduce them for any length of time.
4. Don't be too nice. They'll find a reason to quarrel and get rid of you.
Note: These people can be selfish and anti-seductive if they are extreme. Mostly, they're harmless and make good victims.
Personally, I would go with a short-term relationship to mix things up a bit, enliven life. If you really want to enter a long-term relationship, then be ready to interject drama into your relationship periodically. They need it and will find it exciting, sort of a way to constantly renew the relationship. On a personal level, I don't enjoy this. But to each his/her own. If you like it, go for it.
You MUST enjoy the constant pull of the game if you want to play with the Queen. They never stop playing.
Exotic Fetishists...not what you think they are
These people are intrigued by whatever they see as exotic. They are utterly fascinated by it. They may not like the society or social class they come from and so like things/people that aren't part of it.
Recognizing them:
These people like to travel and keep many objects from those far away places. Usually they have a rebellious streak a mile wide too.
To seduce them:
Easy--make yourself exotic. If you are from a different race or social class, this will be easy. If you are not different from them in some easily defined way, don't bother with these. But, it's easy to play up your exotic-ness, if you have it. Show them just a bit and they imagine the rest to fill in all the blanks.
Troubles:
These easily turn away to something else when they start to find what was exotic to them commonplace. But don't despair. They also tend to be very insecure, so you can play on this and extend a bit.
If you decide to seduce this type, enjoy. In my personal experience, they tend to be marvelous lovers for as long as you both want to play the game. Enjoy the game, Ladies and Gentlemen.
Recognizing them:
These people like to travel and keep many objects from those far away places. Usually they have a rebellious streak a mile wide too.
To seduce them:
Easy--make yourself exotic. If you are from a different race or social class, this will be easy. If you are not different from them in some easily defined way, don't bother with these. But, it's easy to play up your exotic-ness, if you have it. Show them just a bit and they imagine the rest to fill in all the blanks.
Troubles:
These easily turn away to something else when they start to find what was exotic to them commonplace. But don't despair. They also tend to be very insecure, so you can play on this and extend a bit.
If you decide to seduce this type, enjoy. In my personal experience, they tend to be marvelous lovers for as long as you both want to play the game. Enjoy the game, Ladies and Gentlemen.
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