Step 2: Approach Indirectly

As a seducer, you need to create a false sense of security for your victim. They need to believe that they are safe...at first. To that end, disguise your Seducer Character in your manner at this stage. You want them comfortable; one of the best ways to do this is to make friends with your target. Go from friend to confidante to lover, arrange "chance" encounters, etc.

As a seducer, you must learn to move people in the direction you want them to go--without them knowing it:
1. Get their attention and stir their desire.
2. Friendly conversation gets information.
3. Spending time with your victim makes them comfortable with you.
***Once he/she starts to think of you, he/she will wonder why you never made a move. Then, he/she will make one, and they will think that they are seducing you.

Important Steps
1. Make them come to you: Remember that to do this you must (a) entice them, (b) give them "green light" signals, and (c) give them space to chase you.
2. Make friends--but still keep a distance that is appropriate for opposite sex friends: You don't want to be too chummy; you want your victim to feel secure but still think of you as a member of the opposite sex.
3. Play cat and mouse: You need to be actively drawing in your victim. If you don't keep them interested, they will go to someone else.

*****Special Notes:
ALWAYS avoid crowding your targets.
Try a few of these strategies:

-Banal conversation can be brilliant when it comes to hypnotizing your target. If you don't mention love or other emotions, their absence can speak volumes.
-Boring details followed by bold demands.
-Get to your target through other people.
-Disguise your feelings and let people guess at them (= Mystery). Overt emotion or ambition can frighten many people.

Ladies and Gentlemen, "friends first" may be somewhat cliche but it certainly puts your target at ease. Try it. But no matter what strategy you choose to employ, keep yourself within your target's view. They need to know that you are there without your presence being intrusive.

Best of luck with your targets. I have mine all picked out.