Wednesday, January 20, 2010

I am jaded; I am cynical; I am the Roue....

Hello, My Dear Readers. I have some wonderful stories for you. But business first.

The Roue is probably the most hedonistic of all the victim types. They love pleaure, seek pleasure, live for pleasure (or did at one time). Now, because of all that, they are jaded, cynical, and in general think that they have tasted everything that the world has to offer.

This is all a mask. Yes, they have experienced life, but they are really hiding a sentimenal side. These Victims tend to regret the loss of their own naivete on some level (conscious or not). Therefore, they are drawn to people who are innocent and young (or young seeming).

To Recognize them:

An easy way to find out what type of people they have been involved with in the past--their most cherished relationships will be with someone who was naive/ innocent/ younger than them/ etc. when they met. Perhaps the Roue had the joy of corrupting them. Perhaps the Roue kept them as innocent as possible, not wanting to tarnish what they love. This is probably the easiest way to tell a Roue.
There are many today who lead hedonistic lives, but they do not all long for what they lost.

To seduce them:

DO:
-Appear somewhat young (at least younger than your victim)
-Keep the appearance of innocence as much as possible (this can be played up by showing how you lack experience)
-Resist their advances. They like to chase you...and, by resisting, you control the dynamics of the relationship.

Don't:
-Give in too quickly or easily. Treat these like they are all Rake Seducer Types in the following way: if you give in too quickly or easily, then the game is over and they move one. You have become the conquested instead of them.
-Don't let your guard down. These types can be dangerously seductive (I know), and once you let your guard down, they have the upper hand and use it every time. You will lose the game.


Roue's can be some of the most fun to seduce. Remember to appear as innocent as possible. These people chase angels.

Happy hunting.

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