Here I come to save the day!....The Rescuer

Rescuers are exactly what their names imply--they like to rescue people. Bring on the Damsel (or Gentleman) in distress because these guys love it.

These Victims seem to only be attracted to people with problems--the very sadness/ depression of those problems burden people with seems to attract a Rescuer. It appeals to the deep seeded desire to help someone, but it also makes them feel as though they're "in power" or superior because he/she has just solved your problem.They're a hero!

Recognizing them: Look for people with a lot of empathy, the kind that always seem to want you to open up and talk about your problems/ issues with them. Also, a Rescuer will usually have a string of relationships with dependent/ troubled/ needy people.

To catch one:

Do:
-Play Damsel In Distress (women)--let him be a Knight.

-Play a Boy that cannot deal with the Harsh World (men)--let her be the healing maternal influence.

-Have an air of sadness (it will draw them in). Pick anything to be your issue (strings of bad relationships with people who take advantage of you, you've had too little love in your life, whatever).

-Be vulnerable.

Don't:
-Be needy--having needs and being needy are different. (Needing constant reassurance of who you are and that you are worth something/ are good at something/etc. is completely separate than a periodic crisis. The former is NEEDY...and incredibly anti-seductive to anyone, even a Rescuer.)

-Suddenly start solving their problems for them in return. (They provide this service to you; if you reciprocate in kind, then you have taken from them what they give you, taken their pride and superiority. That will crush them.) Let them keep the high ground; you will get what you want.


On a personal note, Rescuers really are a joy to seduce and pleasurable to have around. They always want to help you deal with the harshness of life and make you feel better, or help you finish that tough project you're working one, or cheer you on from the sideline as you finish that race they "convinced" you to enter.

Whatever it is, they are happy to dig in and help you. They appreciate your appreciation too. Never a dull moment on this one, all the different ways you can find to say Thank You and they can find to help you, it never gets old. They care too much.

Again, enjoy the game. Choose your Victims, Seduce languidly, and Satisfy you BOTH in the process.