The Conqueror

These are some of my favorite victims because they have a ton of energy! They can and will play the game for a long time. These people are always looking for another obstacle to overcome.

Don't trust their outward appearance to tell you who they are on this one. Conquerors may be shy and quiet or loud and obnoxious, you can never tell--so look at their actions in work and relationships. They love power, so they work to get it any way they can.

Conquerors are emotional sporadically, prone to outburst, otherwise they hold it in. So, don't worry if they don't seem like you are affecting them at first; they will show you eventually.

Do:
1. Make your Conqueror emotional. It keepts them off balance.
2. Give them something to chase--put obstacles inthe way for them.
3. Play the Coquette (this works best with this type of victim).
4. Make them work for the relationship.

Don't:
1. Lie down and be easy pray. (They will wlak away when they are done or not take the bait.)
2. Be intimidated by their moodiness. They get over it, so should you.
3. Make the mistake of thinking all Conquerors are men.

Many Conquerors are men, but not all. A female friend of mine is an active Conqueror. If a man does not put up some kind of resistence for her to overcome, ends a relationship first, or threatens to end a relationship first, she goes crazy trying to find ways around it. She works so hard for the relationship that she usually gets it. But, if the man doesn't continue to play the Coquette, she gets bored and moves on to the next man.

One day she will get pinned down by a male Coquette. For now, she charges back and forth as all Conquerors do. So make them charge back and forth until they get worn down (it may take a while), but don't ever completely leave the game. Periodically, they need a challenge, even after they've become "docile."

Happy seductions.