Here's a few quick notes on the seduction process, things you need to do as a seducer, and problems that people cause themselves.
The Process:
As I have said many times, this is a game, and it's an enjoyable one. Seduction should bring pleasure to both parties, not only one. These can be quick Casanova-like seductions, but he left his victims loving him as well. This game is very much like chess, requiring time, patience, and thought.
Things you need to do:
1. Observation. You need to learn this skill and practice often. I can give you steps, advice, etc. but you must watch and learn things about your victim. You are the one that is there.
2. Imagination. Seduction should transport your victim from the every day to somewhere else; this is impossible to do without imagination. Where you go depends on you victim.
3. Patience. Don't try to rush your victim through the steps. It takes time to seduce .
4. Mystery. This is the center of seduction. If you get too familiar with people, they get too comfortable and the relationship gets boring and routine. Avoid this (i.e. Periodically, re-seduce the people in your life).
5. Focus and strategic thinking. You need to be one step ahead of your victim. I will teach you how.
Problems:
1. Don't be selfish. People tend to think only about their own issues/ anxieties/ concerns/ etc, but you are different. You are a seducer, and you think outside the box. So focus on your victim, not yourself.
2. Don't rush your seduction! The longer you take, the deeper the seduction gets. If you rush, you are being selfish. And, from an expert, the longer seductions are extremely satisfying.
3. Don't be self-absorbed. Most people think more about what they can get from others than what they can give. You shouldn't. Your victims love you because you give them pleasure, not the other way around.
4. Don't be merciful. You need to draw the victim out of his/her daily life. This can be uncomfortable or painful for some, but it's necessary.
5. Don't be timid. You may play at shyness, but you are not timid. Shynes is bashfulness (maybe you blush and draw back a bit). Timidity means that you lack self-assurance, courage, bravery. Seducers cannot be timid.
Also, romantic seductions require a more physical form of foreplay, which we will go into later. For social/political seductions, foreplay is psychological and emotional. The only difference between these and a romantic seduction is adding the physical component. If you have questions before we get to the physical discussion, ask and I will answer.
Now, we begin.
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