They need you to fill their lives...The Idol Worshippers

Never satisfied with themselves or their own lives, they seek others to fill it for them--something to worship. They're always looking for something else.

Recognizing them:
-These people are almost always pouring themselves into some cause or religion so deeply that it consumes their lives. Don't mistake this for being a work-aholic. Work-aholics like work, but they do have other interests, other things that they do or are interested in. And they tend to stick to the one or two kinds of work that they love.
-Idol Worshippers tend to shift around from one cause to another over the years. These causes may even be conflicting. That is not an issue for the Victim because they were never really looking for the cause, they were looking for something to fill their life.

Seducing them:

Do:
1. Let them worship you. You simply replace their cause/religion/etc.
2. At first, appear to share their spiritual interest, join them in worshipping it, or introduce them to a new cause. After a time, you replace them.
3. HIDE YOUR FLAWS (or cover them, make them seem not so much like flaws).
4. Be/ mirror the qualities that your victim aspires to or worships.
5. Let romance and religion seem to be the same.

Don't:
1. Burst your victim's bubble. If they wish to think that you are super human, let them think so. Do everything you can to keep them thinking that and they will overlook anything that may countermand their perception.
2. NEVER try to elevate them to your level. They want to be below you, worshipping you on the pedestal. Being on the pedestal themselves makes them intensely uncomfortable.
3. NEVER seem like you worship them, for any reason.

Keys to remember about this type:

1. They have overactive minds, making them suspicious on some levels. This is partly because they lack physical stimulation. Give them some, and it will distract them (hiking, boating, sex, anything with a large physical component will do).

2. This type often has low self-esteem, but DO NOT try to raise it. They are comfortable as they are and really wish to stay that way.



Also, this type can make wonderful short term victims, but the need to always find some new cause will eventually lead them away to something else.

Enjoy the game.