Take a risk and try to seduce this one....The Lonely Leader

"Powerful people are not necessarily different from everyone else, but they are treated differently, and this has a big effect on their personalities." (The Art of Seduction, p. 159). Mr. Greene is right. People of this personality type are treated differently. This shapes some of their habits, thoughts, actions and breeds suspicion in their minds. They're used to people wanting things from them. This means that they will be harder to seduce...but not impossible.

Recognizing them:
-The people around them treat them differently, defer to them. This is not because of money, power, fame, prestige, or position, but because of the sheer force of their personalities.
-They may be introverted, extroverted, young, old, etc. but all those of this type like genuine people. They are constantly surrounded by those who are angling for something.

Seducing them:

Do:
1. Be honest, even blunt. You will seem genuine and they will appreciate the risk you took in being so honest. (It can be dangerous to be honest with those in power.)
2. Act as their equal or superior. There are many people who fawn around them, telling them how great they are. You need to be set apart from them. Acting your Victim's equal may well be a new experience for them.
3. Be patient and clever. This seduction will take time.

Don't:
1. Use the usual tactics of charm and flattery. They will see through it and disdain you for using them.
2. Don't idolize them. As said before, many fawn over these people, they do not want a lover who constantly does so as well.

Special Considerations:
-These people are so difficult to seduce because they have less mental space for seduction. Their minds are almost constantly laden with cares and responsibilities.
-They are suspicious. You must find a way to help them lay this aside.
-No matter how they appear, these people really do long to be seduced/swept off their feet by love. They long to forget their cares and have fun. Help them do this; they will love you for it.


Though this may be one of the hardest seductions, it will likely be one of the most rewarding. As you seduce them, they will come to depend on you. You will have to be ingenious and nimble of mind, but you will have a powerful ally who relies on you.

Remember that, in this game, the reward always equals the risk. Go after the one you want. Happy hunting.