Ladies and Gentlemen, don't let the name fool you. There are both male and female Drama Queens, and all of you know someone who is one.
We've all met the person that something just has to be going on in their lives. Good or bad, horrific is the best. They want pain--believe it or not, this is their way of deflecting boredom.
Recognize them by the number of people who have hurt them, the tragedies that have befallen them, the horrors that they've witnessed. They play the victim...and like it.
Seducing them:
1. Dont' fix their problems.
2. Dont' offer security. (Remember, these people enjoy pain.)
3. Since they enjoy pain, you have to be able to give them rough mental treatment. No matter how much they may say or look otherwise, they really enjoy this. It's the only way to seduce them for any length of time.
4. Don't be too nice. They'll find a reason to quarrel and get rid of you.
Note: These people can be selfish and anti-seductive if they are extreme. Mostly, they're harmless and make good victims.
Personally, I would go with a short-term relationship to mix things up a bit, enliven life. If you really want to enter a long-term relationship, then be ready to interject drama into your relationship periodically. They need it and will find it exciting, sort of a way to constantly renew the relationship. On a personal level, I don't enjoy this. But to each his/her own. If you like it, go for it.
You MUST enjoy the constant pull of the game if you want to play with the Queen. They never stop playing.
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I think I would bitch slap the guy before he could add more drama into my life. No, I don't think the drama queen is correct victim for me! lol!
Many do feel the same way, Artemis. That is one of the reason there are ever so many victim types--we can each choose the ones we like and would like to seduce.
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