A note:

Sorry about the delay, ladies and gentlemen. Back to the game.

Remember, All, that seduction is a language of signals. Signals given and signals received--sometimes it is good to intentionally send mixed signals; it keeps your object unsure and thinking about you. But there are a few things to remember.

1. Men and women do not speak the same language:

Many people that I know (and you know many too, no doubt) somehow end up saying things like "How could he not know that?!" or "Why doesn't she just get that I need Saturday with my guys?" or "How could he/she not know that I like him/her?" This is a problem in communication. Either they do like you and aren't picking up on your signals, are genuinely uninterested (and you should pick a new Victim), or you are just trying to rush things. A good seduction takes time.

In addition, different things have different levels of meaning for different people; i.e. a touch at the right time and in the right way may mean more to a person than even "I love you," or a small gift (a $1.00 card from Wal-Mart) may mean more to this person than spending time with them on Friday night because it shows that you were thinking of them.

Also, if your intended Victim wants a night out with his/her friends, so what? They should have it. You can have the night out with your friends too. Like Aesop said "Familiarity breeds contempt." Keep an appropriate distance while showing interest and you will hook your desire and theirs.

2. Be unavailable occasionally:

Your life does not and should not revolve around your Victim. If you need to be somewhere else, be somewhere else. The absence makes your presence more desirable. Others want your company and attention too, not just your Victim--you want your victim to see and know this. Don't be overbearing with it though, be nonchalant.

3. Say no occasionally:

You are not there to fulfill your Victim's EVERY need, just the one you are exploiting. Not everyone wants their problems solved either, some people need it to keep their lives interesting. Sometimes, denying things for a short period will make the experience more pleasurable in the end.


Now, Ladies and Gentlemen, enjoy your seductions...and may your Victims enjoy them too.