An IMPORTANT note:

Don't tip your hand.

At some point in a relationship you may be able to tip your hand to the other person and tell them that you went out of your way to cultivate that relationship (whether you seduced them into friendship, a romantic liaison, or marriage doesn't really matter). But, this really depends on the person's personality, victim type, and seducer type.

Some people want to believe that the relationship was his/ her idea. Some people want to believe that the two of you naturally slipped together like the relationship was always meant to be. For others, it won't mattered how it started--your relationship is what it is, however it got that way.

NO ONE wants to feel like they were coerced into a relationship. They always want to feel that they had some say in it and not all people will reach a level of understanding that makes them realize that they always had a choice--even if you do everything in your power to make someone take the bait, they do NOT have to take it.

So until you know for sure how the person will react, don't tip your hand. If you are at all unsure of how he/ she will react, keep it to yourself. It's uncommon to get in trouble for things that you do not say. You'll almost always get in trouble for what you do say.

Until you're sure, don't tip your hand.