Targets

We call our targets Victims but, in reality, they are nearly always willing victims. They play the game just as you do. Don't forget this. There are some that will try to deny this if a romance ends. It is untrue. Both they and you knew the risks when you started the game.

The game should be fun. Do not take it too seriously. Knowing that, continue to read.

Everyone is lacking something in their lives that they are unable (or seemingly unable) to provide for themselves. This lack is what we seek in others, the void that we want them to fill for us. Look for what your victim lacks. That is what you need to provide for them.

To find what your Vicitm lacks, look at a number of things: clothing, gestures, offhand comments, things they keep in their house, looks in their eyes, and get them to talk about their past (especially romance and relationships). People are constantly broadcasting signals as to what thye lack in hopes that someone will pick up on it and provide it for them. Pay attention and you'll see it. Remember to look beyond the appearance that people put forward. They will say many things; find the reality of what they lack, not what they say they lack.

DO NOT assume that everyone lacks what you do. They don't. You may crave security, others will despise it. You may dream of forever, others only want now--forever frightens them.

And remember this cardinal principle (DON'T break it): NEVER SEDUCE YOUR OWN KIND.
You lack the same things and can never fulfill one another.