Beginnings

As I said before, each of us needs to understand what kind of Seducer we are and what kind of Victim we are. For this, I recommend The Art of Seduction.

Seducer Types:

According to Greene (who wrote The Art of Seduction), there are 9 types. I'm researching to see if there may be more. They are:
1. The Siren
2. The Rake
3. The Ideal Lover
4. The Dandy
5. The Natural
6. The Coquette
7. The Charmer
8. The Charismatic
9. The Star

A quick introduction: the Siren (female) exudes sexual energy and embodies the male fantasy; the Rake (male) is the danger edged, attentive female fantasy; the Ideal Lover (both) is the one that reflects their targets fantasy--adventure, romance, anything--and a master of illusion; the Dandy (both) throws expectations of image out the window and does ast hey please with style and flare; the Natural is playful, unpretentious, child-like; the Coquette (both) is a master of stop and go; the Charmer (both) is the master of smoke and mirrors--they make their targets the focus of all the attention and uses this to reel them in; the Charismatic (both) excites us with their presence, they seem extraordinary just by being; the Star (both) is vague, ethereal, and fascinating--we love to watch them and imagine.

I will go over and develop these more one by one later.

Victim Types:

There are 18 victims (Greene).

1. the Reformed Rake/Siren (Need to resume their previous ways, to seduce others)
2. Disappointed Dreamers (Need their romantic dreams to be reality. They've been crushed.)
3. the Pampered Royal (Need distraction, spectacle, new experiences provided for them)
4. the New Prude (concerned with appearances/correctness, they want to rebel and let go)
5. the Crushed Star (once admired, they want the attention they've lost back again)
6. the Novice (curious, they want experience with life but have none)
7. the Conqueror (Need constant challenges, let them be agressive but offer some resistence)
8. the Exotic Fetishest (don't like where they're from, want different things, exotic things)
9. the Drama Queen (need to deflect boredom, they want excitement)
10. the Professor (Need physicality, their minds are overstimulated)
11. the Beauty (Needs to be appreciated for ANYTHING BUT physical appearances)
12. the Aging Baby (Need someone to be responsible for them so they can play)
13. the Rescuer (Need to save people in trouble, to act chivalrous or maternal)
14. the Roue (cynical, jaded and worldly, they long to seduce--especially the innocent)
15. the Idol Worshiper (feel empty inside, they long for something to worship to fill the void)
16. the Sensualist (have overactive senses, use them by seducing with spectacle and sensation)
17. the Floating Gender (undecided what gender to embody, these prefer to play with both and want someone who has the same indecision)
18. the Lonely Leader (used to power, they're deferred to constantly. Act their equal or superior to get them to notice you)


Notes:
Each victim has a longing to fill, a weakness to exploit. BUT remember that the goal here is not to use people, but to enjoy them. Seduction is a game--a very enjoyable and satisfying one for both parties when played correctly.
Also, the game does not have anything to do with sex unless you and your victim decide that it does.

Many of my current friends, I have because I seduced them.